The run-up to Christmas can be an exciting yet overwhelming time for small business owners. From juggling the demands of work to the personal chaos of making nativity costumes and attending endless festive commitments, it can feel like there’s just too much to do. So, how are you holding up? This time of year can be incredibly stressful, with the pressures of wrapping up the year and preparing for the next all while running on an almost empty tank. Here’s some advice to help manage the overwhelm, balance everything, and approach the season with a clearer head so you can enjoy the most wonderful (and busiest) time of the year.

Don’t Compare

The temptation to scroll through social media can be strong, but it’s not always helpful. Those perfectly polished families and businesses showcasing their seemingly flawless Christmas preparations can be a serious mood hoover. Remember, what you’re seeing is a highlight reel, not reality.

Instead of scrolling, try reducing your screen time. Listen to a podcast, some calming music, or even an audiobook. Giving yourself a break from the pressure of comparison can be the best gift you give yourself this season.

Make a List (and Check It Twice!)

When life feels like a whirlwind, writing things down can be a game-changer. Make a list of everything you need to do, then categorise it:

  • Urgent: Must-dos for business or life.
  • Important but flexible: Things that can wait until after the holidays.
  • Can be dropped: Items that don’t truly matter.

This simple act of prioritisation can make your to-do list feel less like a mountain and more like manageable steps.

Lower Your Expectations

Christmas doesn’t have to be picture-perfect to be wonderful. It’s the people you share it with that matter, not the gifts or Instagram-worthy decorations. Didn’t get the kids’ nativity costumes just right? Burned the Christmas pudding? It’s okay. These little imperfections will make for great memories, not failures. And I can certainly remember the time we sent candle wax up the wall, burnt a hole in the dining table and got melted plastic all over a thumb (separate occasions would you believe…).

Take a Moment for 2025 Thinking

As the year winds down, carve out some quiet time to reflect on your business. What went well this year, what didn’t and what can you learn from? Use these reflections to sketch out some goals for the coming year, whether they’re about financial growth, improving work-life balance, or achieving specific milestones. Success isn’t one-size-fits-all; it’s about what feels right for you.

Prioritise Self-Care

Let’s be honest: if you’re not taking care of yourself, your business will suffer too. Allow yourself time to recharge. Maybe that means delegating tasks, saying no to commitments that don’t spark joy, or simply scheduling time to relax with loved ones. Your business doesn’t need you to work 24/7—it needs you to be your best self. Get this right and you’ll be able to get through the most wonderful (and busiest) time of the year much better.

Final Thoughts

The Christmas season can be as magical or as manic as you make it. With a bit of planning, self-compassion, and a focus on what truly matters, you can tackle the busiest time of year without losing yourself in the process.

Here’s to a season filled with joy, connection, and just the right amount of chaos. You’ve got this!

Further Reading

The festive season can be particularly challenging for small business owners, with the added pressures of personal commitments like crafting nativity outfits and attending numerous holiday events. To further support you during this busy time, consider exploring these related articles:

Additionally, for external guidance on alleviating holiday stress, the article “The 6 Most Common Holiday Stressors—and How to Maintain Your Calm” provides valuable tips to navigate the season with ease.

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